There is a simple thing that guys can do to boost their confront on approaching women and meeting women.
Whenever you feel uncomfortable in any situation, it means that you are approaching this circumstance on too high a gradient. Rather than runing away from the situation, lower the gradient.
How do you define gradients? Gradients are like steps on a ladder. If you try to go to the top of the ladder on your initial step, it will be impossible to accomplish, and you will fail. If you continue trying it over and over you will start building up a complex about failing, and soon not make an effort anymore.
If you try to jump up five or six steps on your initial try, it will also be scary -- not necessarily out of the question but terrifying. And the probability is that if you have no experience jumping that high you will fail .
The right tactic is to take the first step and then advance one-step at a time. It is the most comfortable route to climb a ladder.
When I was a young man I would see a girl I was attracted to and thought I had to tell her how much I liked her right away. Well that was jumping up too many steps on the ladder. I didn't even know her.
The first step is a straightforward "Hi" and a smile. Then keep walking. Get comfortable just saying "Hi" to girls. Then as step two when they say "Hi" back or ask you a question, answer the question, or make a comment about something that she has her attention on to continue the conversation. For instance, if you are in a bookstore and she is looking at a book on cooking, ask her what she thinks of that book. Is it any good?
Interactions develop naturally. Do not push it. Familiarize yourself with her before you decide that you like her.
Of course, there is a whole lot more to it, but these are good basics to begin with. If you use gradients eventually you will learn how to meet women.
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